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| black men don't cheat: White Men Can't Hump (As Good As Black Men) Todd Wooten, 2006-10 White Men Can't Hump is a book of hope. The hope is that one day Black Men in America will no longer be viewed as unintelligent, unattractive, undesirable, uncivilized, and just plain old worthless. White Men Can't Hump will address why Black Men in America are perceived in such a negative way, and will also explore the origins of this negativity. White Men Can't Hump will also explore how this negativity has been spread for the last four centuries (a la stereotypes), and why this negativity has been spread (a la Fear of the Black Penis). Several of these so-called negative Stereotypes will be closely examined and shown in a new light. White Men Can't Hump will ask why two well known Stereotypes that have been historically assigned to Black Men, are only considered negative when applied to Black Men. Most men desire a large Penis and an elevated sexual prowess, but all across America (in offices, bars and locker rooms) the Black Penis and Black Prowess are routinely the Punch Line to jokes. White Men Can't Hump will ask why, and will also ask a question that will create a debate for the ages: Who's better in bed, Black Men or White Men? White Men Can't Hump will take you the reader on an educational and enlightening journey through America's past and present with the hope of changing America's future. So sit back and enjoy or cuss, agree or disagree, and most importantly think with an open mind. Because whether you like it or not, White Men Can't Hump tells the story of who all of us are, where we've come from, and where we're going. White Men Can't Hump is divided into two VOLUMES. VOLUME I focuses on how Sex has historically affected Race relations in America, and VOLUME II focuses on how Race has affected Sex relations in America. Don't be confused by the similar titles because both VOLUMES pack a different Sexual, Racial, Political, and Social punch. For more information feel free to visit: www.whitemencanthump.com Enjoy the ride my friend. |
| black men don't cheat: Beautiful Black Women Don't Need Stupid Black Men Cornell Martin, 2012 Within these pages, you will discover why many Black men are mindless regarding matters of beautiful Black love, how to rekindle true love in Black relationships, and much more. |
| black men don't cheat: Secrets to Why Some Black Men Cheat (Book) Mpumelelo Meslane, 2018-08-31 Secrets to Why Some Black Men Cheat is based on personal experiences and observation of some black men who were serial cheaters in their relationships. This book does not aim to single out a specific gender, race, culture, religion or make any generalization, assumptions in terms of cheating but merely to share insight into the world of some cheating black men. These secrets are not scientific in nature but based on a sample of black men who whom I have interacted and observed over a period of more than 23 years. I hope these secrets will save many relationships in the future. |
| black men don't cheat: Black Men Still Exist David J. Ramsey, 2014-12-04 Deeply concerned that a high percentage of African American men seem to be falling short of living a meaningful existence in today's society, David J. Ramsey digs into his people's colorful past in an attempt to explain their present predicament. Through a series of interviews with black men as well as women, Ramsey uncovers factors such as coping with abandonment and abuse, and the lack of guidance and support. Giving much emphasis to the significance of nurturing the family and responsible par |
| black men don't cheat: Black Men Endangered Species William Jenkins, 2018-08-26 Over the years hundreds of thousands of people have attempted to portray the black person's struggle and suffering that has occurred with the development of our world. There is, however, no way to accurately depicted the feelings and emotions of these people because the majority have never experienced it or let alone even imagined the lives that these people were forced to live. Slavery was one of the most horrific and in human acts ever instilled on a race of people ever in our world's history. People were stolen from their homelands, broken apart from their families, and were thrust into a lifestyle that inhibited their every move and instilled harsh punishments on them. It is almost impossible for many of us to comprehend the mindsets that these slave owners possessed, but history paints a truly horrific and emotional picture for us all to see. The history of health for black Americans has been one of deep inequity. At the start of the 1900s to 2018 |
| black men don't cheat: Black Couples Therapy Yamonte Cooper, Erica Holmes, 2023-06-30 Most research and couple therapy modalities tend to be normed on white European American couples and fail to include research on Black couples. This volume fills a void in the theory, research, and practice of couples therapy where clinicians have historically not been specifically trained to provide culturally responsive care when addressing the unique experiences and needs of Black couples. It aims to provide students, researchers, and allied mental health professionals with greater awareness, knowledge, and competency in working with Black couples. It assists therapists in developing a working alliance with Black couples and places an emphasis on cultivating environments that are instrumental to decreasing relationship distress and disconnection. Black Couples Therapy provides a comprehensive overview of the research and theory behind race and collective identity as well as romantic coupling, illustrated by examples of practice. |
| black men don't cheat: Can We Live? Jason Cohen Sr., 2019-11-13 From the mind of a crafty wordsmith comes can we live. A number of poetry entries that represent growing up a black man in the United States. As you dive in to read you jog through the memory bank and creativity of JayCo Cohen. Can we live is a poetry book touching on topics that should be discussed. |
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| black men don't cheat: The Cheating Game Terry Azzouz MA LPC LSOTP, 2010-10-20 The Cheating Game is a book that addresses the issue of infidelity and adultery. Many people know the signs of cheating behaviors but few know the reasons their spouses cheat on them. Some think the only reason people cheat is because of sex. This is not true. The behavior might be sexual but the motives can range from revenge to the need for emotional connection. The Cheating Game not only addresses the signs and reasons people cheat, but it also offers solutions. Some of these solutions come in the form of knowing how to please your mate and how to be pleased as a woman. Other options to stopping the cheating game are explored including open relationships. The Cheating Game is written allowing all individuals to identify with the desire to save their relationship. Honesty is stressed along with open communication. While reading The Cheating Game, you will see yourself in the various examples. This book will make you want to take positive steps towards growth as a person and as a couple. It will be a revelation that transforms your life. |
| black men don't cheat: The Hell with Black People coleman G. Lauderdale, 2013 |
| black men don't cheat: Drowning in a Crowded Room Anthony Patton, 2010-05 Lisa stared down at her hands trying to remove what wasn't there. She always played with her hands when she was lost, when her mind couldn't grasp the situation. Her mind raced, trying to escape this reality, escape what she just heard. Bobby sat undeterred, almost defiant of the situation, not realizing the power of words, the way it can change lives...or end relationships. I sat quietly as my eyes darted from one to the other waiting for my reprieve, my lifeline. Why? Lisa asked Bobby as she continued to stare down at her hands, almost too embarrassed to look up...or ashamed. It's their skin, I can't stand the color, it makes me sick, I can't believe you're with one of them Finally after what seemed to be an eternity Lisa spoke, placing words in the silence. Why didn't you tell me this before, I never would have gotten married. Poet and writer Anthony Patton graduated from Los Angeles Trade Tech where he holds a degree. He currently resides in San Diego California. An art and history lover and cyclist, he can often be found either in a museum or on the road. |
| black men don't cheat: The Mentality of Racist White America Is the Mentality of Black America Robert McMlillan Jr., 2010-05-18 This book is about the Mentality of African/Black Americans, Past and Present, and how it correlates with the Mentality of Racist White Americans, Past and Present. And how can we change the way we Think. Also, an in-depth look at the Mentality of Men and WomenSexuallyAnd how Mens Sexual Mentality correlates with Womens Sexual Mentality. The two are the same. Hence, the Breakdown of the African\Black American family. When you add it all up, when you have African\Black Americans Thinking like Racist White Americans, And African\Black American Women [Women in general] Thinking like African\Black American males [Men in general], the end results for African\Black Americans as a Unit, Family, and People [not as an individual] is sad and tragic. |
| black men don't cheat: The Barbershop Sessions Shawn A. Lewis, Jimmy D. Evans, 2008-02 Funny-. nicknames from the Friendship Zone are: Cuddly, Rollie Pollie, Marshmallow, Pooh Bear, Lucky, Charm, Lucky Charm, My Protector, and or Bodyguard. Insightful-. Black women grow up looking for the perfect guy but in their subconscious they are expecting the imperfect guy. Sexy-. right there in front of the cereal boxes in aisle five, we kissed.We held each other tight.Through my kiss I told her about my sleepless nights and deepest thoughts. Nine becomes a shell of the man he used to be after his third great love goes bad. Hopefully, The Barbershop Sessions can give him new meaning and the faith in life to be capable of loving again. Nine, along with his partner, Soda, embark on a mission to further understand the dynamics of black men and women when it comes to dating and marriage. What is it that the men of The Barbershop Sessions want the sisters to know? What is it that the Systahs of the Pedicure Dialogues want the brothers to know? Through brutally honest and often-explicit round table discussions, Soda and Nine, bring to surface the intricate real life experiences of the African American community's social and relational issues. |
| black men don't cheat: Don't Blame It on Rio Jewel Woods, Karen Hunter, 2008-04-24 There is a not-so-new, not-so-secret destination where a growing number of American black men are traveling for the kind of sex and freedom they say they can't find with black women. Thousands of unsuspecting women are kissing their men good-bye while they go on business trips to Rio where they meet up with some of their friends and have sex every way they can imagine-no strings, no hassles, and no conscience. This social worker is a Ph.D. student at the Mandel School of Applied Social Science at Case Western Reserve University in Ohio. He is the founder of The Renaissance Male Project Inc. and a New Voices Fellow 2005. He has made appearances on both national and regional television and radio shows, and print publications such as Essence magazine, The Toledo Blade, and the Cleveland Plain Dealer. |
| black men don't cheat: Don't Bring Home a White Boy Karyn Langhorne Folan, 2010-02-02 Folan encourages readers to look beyond common generalizations and stereotypes about race and gender in interracial relationships. In Don’t Bring Home a White Boy, writer Karyn Langhorne Folan debunks the myths and common preconceptions about interracial relationships: Is a black woman who dates white men a traitor to her race? And is America’s history of black oppression a factor? Drawing on real-life testimonials, she boldly tackles this difficult subject with warmth, humor, and understanding, as she explores stereotypes of black female sexuality and white male perspectives on black female beauty. Folan goes beyond statistics and offers firsthand insights on her own interracial relationship and attempts to tap into a woman’s desire to have all that they deserve instead of restricting themselves, simply because they want a “good black man.” Frank, authoritative, and universally relevant, her message to women is to look beyond skin color, accept themselves for who they are, and seek a man who truly loves them, regardless of race. |
| black men don't cheat: AT WITS END JTOYA NELSON, 2017-01-08 J'Toya reached her wits end and did not spare any feelings while expressing her frustration in this book. Societal issues and what she deems as ignorant or immature actions led to her mental earthquake and she hopes that the reader will agree that issues in this book usually irritate the average person. J'Toya is a firm believer that if more people would write or talk about their feelings that it would keep a lot of them off of legal and prescription mind altering drugs and alcohol and lessen the need for psychiatric visits. This book is not for the holier than thou and is not meant to have a negative influence on minors. Warning: The language in this book is harsh and vulgar. Take the ride if you dare and then exhale afterwards. |
| black men don't cheat: Hearings, Reports and Prints of the Joint Economic Committee United States. Congress. Joint Economic Committee, 1972 |
| black men don't cheat: Ex-girl to the Next Girl Daaimah S. Poole, 2006-05 Essence* bestselling author Daaimah S. Poole grabbed readers with the sharp, sexy characters she created for Got a Man. In her sizzling new novel, a lot has changed in the wild lives of three young couples--including their partners--and the game of love is moving faster than ever ... Ever since Shonda stole Malik from his fiancee--at the altar, no less--she's believed that marrying him would be her ticket to happiness. But when he finally steps up and makes it happen, Shonda is in for a rude awakening. From the day he moves his ex-convict brother into their basement, to the day he loses his job, things go downhill. To top it off, Shonda suspects he's playing around. But when Shonda starts breaking the rules at her job as a county prison corrections officer, things go from bad to worse ... Meanwhile, Malik's ex-fiancee, Kim, has had a year to get over the nightmare that was supposed to be her wedding day. On the verge of a breakdown, she gets professional help and manages to pull it together--despite the news that Malik actually married the bitch who spoiled her nuptials. Just as she opens up to the idea of a new life and a new love, Kim meets a new man ... who happens to be white. Is he the one she's been looking for? Kim will have to look past her own issues about race to find out. After two years with her boyfriend Rodney, Nadine Clark is feeling restless. The twenty-five-year-old wants to see what else--meaning who else--is out there. But Nadine soon discovers the single life isn't what she'd imagined. Rodney, on the other hand, is having the time of his life with a new girlfriend. Dejected, Nadine takes up with Malik--a man she believes is single, because that's what he told her. But when his wife, Shonda, confronts her at work, everything hits the fan ... and soon everyone involved is coming face-to-face with the shocking truths--and some crazy consequences--that come with getting what they wished for ...-- |
| black men don't cheat: A Black Man's Worth Allan Williams, 2009-10-22 Are you ready to take a tour inside of many different types of black men souls in this modern day and age? This book will reveal the butt naked truth about the secret thoughts, desires, and mentalities that black men will never expose to black women or to the world in general. The black man has been mentally sleep in a zombie state for several centuries. However even in his drowsy mode he is able to make history that mind boggles the world to this day. Its not a mystery that the first man and people on earth were black well dark green at that time from interbreeding with the star beings A.K.A gods from the star system Sirius in the Orion ConstellationJ. The pyramids in Egypt were built by the hands of black people that were using a higher percentage of their brains, souls, and most importantly spirits. The Bible said as in heaven as it is on earth. Jesus the Christ would be labeled as a black man physically but its not about color. It is written that out of the darkness came the light. The Universe is filled with circles and cycles. The Universe is just a galactic black female that gives birth to planets and new life forms. Every race and culture on the planet is Gods children. However in this book we are strictly dealing with a black mans worth. Behold and awaken the miracle of a black mans worth. From the heavenly star seed author that wrote God dont like fake people, A black womans worth, Storetry, For what its worth, Karma is Gods girlfriend, and A real black woman is the closest thing to God. Proverbs 31:10-10 Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies. |
| black men don't cheat: Your Choice! Tiona Gunthorpe, 2010-03-17 What do you think shapes our identity? Is it your family? Your environment? Your peers / friends? Your mind? As you read through this book, different characters will be introduced to you in which everyone are unique individuals but at the same time are influenced largely from other entities outside of themselves. Family on the other hand serves as a foundation for some. But think about your best friend or your boyfriend / girlfriend. Think about the relationship itself that makes a person fulfill such titles as: best friend, boyfriend / girlfriend. The choices we make and the way we deal with things has a lot to do with our individual experiences as well as what we have learned from the people around us. If one is unsuccessful with a stage, even if one moves on to the next stage, they will still have to at some point address and successfully complete that stage. If not it may effect how an individual passes effectively through the next stages. |
| black men don't cheat: Urban Drama Tony Carnegie, 2007-05 The officer had gotten out of his car with his weapon drawn. He was tapping on the driver's side window with the barrel. I opened the door to get out, as I was getting out, I was asking what the problem was. I didn't get the whole sentence out before . POW, right in my nose. My knees buckled, I was going down. While I was on the ground I heard him asking, where's the dope nigger, I know you rich boys come back to the hood to supply your buddies with the goods. Where is it? I looked up and said, I don't sell or have any . BAM, he kicked me right smack in my stomach. I could smell the bile come out of my mouth as I threw up everywhere. I looked at the other officer, and he was standing there frozen, as if he was gonna get his ass whipped. I decided I was going to stand up. There was gonna be no Rodney King incidents. I stood up and faced him, he struck me again, this time I held my ground, I was not going down. I could see all the neighbors gathering on the sidewalks, I got even stronger. When the officer noticed the crowd, he left to get in his cruiser. His partner was still standing there frozen; he had to blow the horn for him to get in. When they left, I jumped in my car and sped away. |
| black men don't cheat: Secrets to Kill For Joy Evans-Smith, 2007-12-10 Secrets. Everyone has them. Do you? How bad is your secret? Some of us have darker secrets than others. Meet the Baxton sisters: Patricia, Regina, Deidra, CeCe, and Sherilyn. They fight, they love, they laugh, and when necessary...some of them kill! These sisters each lead lives that are not what they seem. The question is, who will be discovered? Who will live and who will die? Secrets To Kill For is a fast paced, mind-boggling suspense thriller that will keep you on the edge of your seat guessing all the way to the end! |
| black men don't cheat: Hearings, Reports and Prints of the Senate Committee on Banking, Housing and Urban Affairs United States. Congress. Senate. Committee on Banking, Housing, and Urban Affairs, 1972 |
| black men don't cheat: Securities Industry Study United States. Congress. Senate. Committee on Banking, Housing, and Urban Affairs. Subcommittee on Securities, 1971 |
| black men don't cheat: SBA Administration of the Disaster Relief Program United States. Congress. Senate. Committee on Banking, Housing, and Urban Affairs. Subcommittee on Small Business, 1972 |
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| black men don't cheat: The Care Plan Miss Asondra StarN'air, 2018-06-30 The Care Plan is interaction book between you and God. I did it this way so you would learn to develop an intimate relationship with Christ. Finally, at the end of the book, I felt the need to include a daily care plan for morning, afternoon, evening, and bedtime to get you in the habit of checking in and out with Christ all through the day. This care plan was originally just for me, and once I began to do the work, discipline myself in the Lord, and read my Bible every day, people notice the difference even my mother noticed it. And that’s what I want for all of you – CHANGE! But in order for that to happen, you must get ready to do the work. Change will not happen if you don't.. Get The Care Plan—it will change your life Open The Care Plan—it’s got you covered from A to Z Do The Care Plan—work toward change, keep evolving, keep growing. IS with YOU! |
| black men don't cheat: Report of the Select Committee on that Portion of the President's Message Relating to the Condition of the South , 1875 |
| black men don't cheat: Sociology John Farley, Michael Flota, 2017-10-02 This best-selling textbook returns for a seventh edition with material on the most fundamental and fascinating issues in sociology today. The authors continue their tradition of focusing on the big picture, with an emphasis on race, class, and gender in every chapter. The text continues to frame sociological debates around the major theoretical perspectives of sociology and focus on capturing students’ imaginations with cutting-edge research and real-world events. The hallmark of the book continues to be clear writing that helps students understand the intricacies of the discipline like no other textbook on the market. New to the Seventh Edition Expanded focus on new social movements such as Black Lives Matter, Occupy Wall Street, and the Tea Party. Updates on both the 2012 and 2016 elections. New discussions of Donald Trump and the immigration debate; causes and consequences. New discussions of patriot movements, racism, and the reaction to the first African American president. Expanded coverage of sexual orientation and LGBT issues. Updates on gay rights and the historic legalization of same-sex marriage. New sections on cyber life discussion issues such as cyber bullying and public shaming; WikiLeaks, Edward Snowden, and NSA spying; sexting and youth culture; the Arab Spring and social media activism. New coverage of the so-called He-cession and the rise of women managers (whom employers still see as risky but, increasingly, as highly talented). Updates on health-care reform, five years on and the efforts to repeal and replace Obamacare. Expanded coverage of mass shootings and the corresponding policy debates. Expanded coverage and new focus on police-involved shootings and gun control in the Deviance, Crime, and Social Control chapter. New discussions of the sociology of finance, including the role of financial derivatives in the 2008 global financial crisis. New photos and updated figures and tables throughout the text. |
| black men don't cheat: Patient 12A Lesedi Molefi, 2024-08-01 ‘Brave, poetic, brutal, always honest. By leading the reader through his chaotic childhood and immersing us in a mental health treatment centre, Lesedi forces us to confront conversations that are often hard to have. I was moved and challenged.’ – GAVIN WEALE So here I am, at a psychiatric hospital, looking for myself in a building I’ve never been to before. A few nights ago, I was ready to rid myself of myself. I still am, only, in a different way ... Patient 12A is Lesedi Molefi’s absorbing memoir, reflecting on his time spent in a psychiatric clinic in 2016. With vulnerability and candour, Lesedi reflects on the moments, large and small, that led him there. It is at once a personal history, an observation of how childhood experiences can have a profound effect on the adults we become, and a commentary on how mental illness remains a difficult conversation in black families. More than anything, in Patient 12A, Lesedi allows himself to filter out the noise in his head to find the truth, however uncomfortable that may be. |
| black men don't cheat: On My Way Stacy May, 2012-02-29 This story On My Way is about how I see my life playing out: some things is just the way they are. I always wanted to help inspire people to do what it is they love; there will be ups and downs in life and I truly understand that mistakes are a must because it helps us grow. But we all know on your way up, there is always a little drama. What would life be like without drama? I dream of having the best and ON MY WAY will tell you how I get there!!! Enjoy |
| black men don't cheat: Black Son Rising Michael Curtis Jones, 2006 Calling upon the author's experience as a youth counselor and prison volunteer, this inspiring work offers a challenging portrayal of black men and the contemporary obstacles they face in American society. With a message that calls equally for communal empathy and individual growth, this assessment of the plight of black men views them in relation to today's most controversial topics (the prison system, drugs, education, and parenting), empowering the academic, social worker, minister, and interested reader. |
| black men don't cheat: Sacred Woman Queen Afua, 2012-06-20 The twentieth anniversary edition of a transformative blueprint for ancestral healing—featuring new material and gateways, from the renowned herbalist, natural health expert, and healer of women’s bodies and souls “This book was one of the first that helped me start practices as a young woman that focused on my body and spirit as one.”—Jada Pinkett Smith Through extraordinary meditations, affirmations, holistic healing plant-based medicine, KMT temple teachings, and The Rites of Passage guidance, Queen Afua teaches us how to love and rejoice in our bodies by spiritualizing the words we speak, the foods we eat, the relationships we attract, the spaces we live and work in, and the transcendent woman spirit we manifest. With love, wisdom, and passion, Queen Afua guides us to accept our mission and our mantle as Sacred Women—to heal ourselves, the generations of women in our families, our communities, and our world. |
| black men don't cheat: Porch Talk with Ernest Gaines Marcia Gaudet, Carl Wooton, 1999-03-01 Ernest J. Gaines, the author of many acclaimed works of fiction, including The Autobiography of Miss Jane Pittman and A Gathering of Old Men, was born in 1933 in the small south Louisiana town of Oscar. In his childhood the center of his world was the old slave quarters on the River Lake Plantation, where five generations of his family lived. All of Gaines’s books have been set in this general area of Louisiana, and though none of his work is strictly autobiographical, his writing bears the distinctive stamp of the rural folk culture amid which he was raised. Marcia Gaudet and Carl Wooton’s Porch Talk with Ernest Gaines is a collection of interviews conducted on the porch of Gaines’s home in Lafayette, Louisiana, where he is writer-in-residence at the University of Southwestern Louisiana. Gaines talks about a variety of topics, including the influence of other writers—among them Faulkner, Hemingway, and Mark Twain—on his style and the importance of oral tradition and folk culture to his writing. He discusses the major themes of his work, such as survival with dignity and the search for manhood, and he describes the relationships among the black, Creole, and Cajun communities of south Louisiana and how they have been portrayed in his fiction. Gaines also comments on the craft of writing, his role as a teacher, the film versions of some of his books, his relationships with his agent and editors, and his work in progress. This is the first book-length work on Gaines to be published. It will be of importance to scholars and students of American literature, particularly southern and Afro-American literature, because it gives the reader valuable insights into Gaines’s life and writing. The format and conversational tone of the book will also appeal to the audience drawn to Gaines’s fiction. |
| black men don't cheat: Once Again, Here We Go Again... Andrew S. Benjamin, B.S, CBrC, CRC, CCC, CEC, 2024-05-17 After investing time and emotion into a blissful relationship, you begin to think this one may be the one. Then BAM! Out of nowhere they begin to show their true colors, telling you they no longer love you and abruptly leave without explanation. Now you’re left alone, wondering, What the hell just happened? Andrew S. Benjamin, B.S, CBrC, CRC, CCC, CEC, has been there, and he recounts his true story of being in love with a narcissist. Through his experiences, you will learn the red flags to watch out for early in the dating process, how to get to the truth of a person before you have invested time and love into a relationship doomed from the start. With this book, learn to avoid the narcissists of the world and find the good, loving person meant for you. |
| black men don't cheat: What Is Compersion? Marie Thouin, 2024-06-10 What is compersion? Is it the “opposite” of jealousy, as it is usually believed? Is it an emotion or a behavior? What causes it to arise and bloom? Can we “learn” compersion or invite more of it into our lives? Based on her seminal research with consensually non-monogamous (CNM) individuals, Dr. Marie Thouin unravels these questions and more in the first-ever book to offer a comprehensive model of compersion and a practical road map to cultivating it. Each chapter features compelling stories from real CNM people, making this a captivating and highly applicable read. In addition, Thouin addresses the broader social context, explaining how understanding compersion is a groundbreaking step toward a world that supports relational diversity and freedom. By disrupting the idea that jealousy is the only valid response to intimacy beyond monogamy, the existence and practice of compersion builds the foundation for a completely new paradigm of loving relationships. This book and its conclusions have profound implications for many fields of study and practice including psychology, sexuality studies, philosophy and ethics, and law. Indispensable for CNM individuals, therapists, counselors, and scholars, this book is also invaluable for anyone curious to learn about positive empathy, intentional relationships, and radical love. |
| black men don't cheat: Would Jesus Date A Woman Like Me? Brian Bolden, 2015-02-11 Throughout the centuries, frustration, disappointment, and despair on both sides has created a great divide between black women and black men. In the world of relationships, it has become increasingly difficult for black women to make an emotional, spiritual, and psychological connection with black men. For many women, they don't even know how to begin to put on a different hat and often find themselves saying, Why can't I find a good black man? The truth of the matter is, many black women are sinking and drowning, according to many black men. On the other side of the spectrum there are black men who also have a considerable amount of scar tissue to deal with, not the least of which has been black women who are deceitful, disrespectful, high maintenance, materialistic gold diggers with get paid mentalities. The end result is that many black men have become frustrated with black women and have also chosen to cross color lines in unbelievably large numbers. For those black men, having a strong Nubian queen by their side has become nothing more than a pipe dream they used to have. For them, dating outside their race is no longer taboo and no longer creates the innate feeling of betraying black women. Sadly, a lot of black men all over the country have lost love and respect for many black women. A lot of black men feel many black women have no idea how to love them, care for them, or nurture their men. They no longer believe that black women are good homemakers nor can they keep a peaceful home. This is an epidemic that has spread all over America. It is my sincere belief that the thoughts and ideas outlined in my book will help answer numerous questions with which black women continue to struggle regarding their relationships with men--particularly black American men, such as: Why will he bed me but not wed me? Why have many black women lost the love and respect of black men? Why are black men continuing to cross the fence in alarming numbers? Why are black men becoming more hesitant to approach black women? Are black men really intimidated by successful black women? Why are so many black men disappointed, discouraged, and frustrated with many black women? Why do many black men see black women as too difficult and too complicated to deal with? Why are some black men making a vow to never date or marry another black woman ever again? Why are many black women hitting home runs in their careers but striking out in their relationships and marriages? These are some of the questions that are answered in this book. This is why it was so important for me to write this book. I want to inform black women in America what they need to do to help restore the faith of good-quality black men. I want black women to understand that I am writing this book as a wake-up call. If I do my job well, perhaps these words will sufficiently energize the mind, heart, and soul of the amazing creation God called woman to stimulate positive behavioral change in her--or at least provoke a little thought. Now, I know I'm treading on thin ice here, but trust me when I say this book is not about bashing black women in America. It's a book about reality and truth. More often than not, most of us do not like to hear the truth because it forces us to take a good look at ourselves, blemishes and all. The old adage, The truth hurts, could certainly apply here. However, another old adage is also applicable: The truth shall set you free. By writing this book, I truly hope to make it easier for black men and woman to come together as one. I want black women to understand that just because many black men have lost faith doesn't mean that we have given up on you. The reality is that sometimes we need to be challenged, and this book will definitely challenge many black women in America to take an introspective look at themselves. Keywords: African American Women, Black Women, Woman, Black Men, Relationship, Dating, Marriage, Sex, Self-Help |
| black men don't cheat: Why Can't We Just Get Along Anthony Hughes, 2021-08-17 This book combines the history of American descendants of slaves with contemporary events to explain the animus existing between the two Americas - one white, one black. WHY CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG answers Rodney's King's question by delving into the weeds of the true black experience in America - slavery, post-civil war black codes, Jim Crow segregation, Lynching, medical experimentation on men, women, and children, and race riots flaring up in every major city of the country. This unique odyssey illustrates the struggles, tears, and generations of the heartbreak of a race of people whom America would long to forget. Ignoring the fact that African-Americans built large segments of the United States, making it the wealthiest nation in the entire world, the world still views them under the lens of hate, disdain, and mistrust. Though they have proven their worth as a community, the dominant society still places them in a position at the bottom rung of society. Though unpublished when originally written in 2005, the unabridged history lessons included in this book are still applicable today. |
| black men don't cheat: FINDING YOUR PURPOSE SARAH MARCELA, 2014-07-18 I am BAD, Blessed And Delivered. That is what I am all about. You don't need a doctorate or a Masters Degree or any kind of formal education to be BAD. All you really need to do for that is to accept the Good Lord into your life and think on the things He says. The Lord helped me to learn how to make it in this world; not only to stay on the right side of the law but to stay on the right side of the Lord. Because of this my husband and I are able to live good, comfortable lives and help other people as well. |
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